Founder of End People Pleasing
I’m Stephanie Allen — a mental health coach and counsellor, but also a recovering people pleaser who knows firsthand how exhausting it is to constantly seek approval and avoid conflict. For years, I shaped my life around what others needed from me — until I realised it was costing me my sense of self.
Now, I help others do what I’ve done: break free, set boundaries, and step into a life that actually feels like their own.
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Through End People Pleasing, I offer coaching and counselling designed to help you release the pressure to please, perform, or prove. I work with people who feel stuck in unhealthy patterns — often survivors of abuse or those struggling with low self-worth — and guide them back to their true, confident selves.
This is gentle, but deeply transformative work. It's not about quick fixes — it’s about building lasting, authentic change.
➢ You say yes to things you don’t want — to avoid guilt or conflict
➢ You feel anxious when someone’s upset with you
➢ You shrink your needs to keep the peace
➢ You struggle to set or stick to boundaries
➢ You feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions
➢ You never feel “enough,” no matter how hard you try